The two rules that cover most decisions
- Dress for the temperature you'll actually be in โ often a crowded, warm room or direct sun. Lightweight and breathable beats formal-but-sweltering.
- Assume the gown will open or be removed for photos afterward. What's underneath will be seen, so choose an outfit you'd happily be photographed in.
For women
- A simple dress or a blouse with tailored pants or a skirt works well; a solid color that complements (not clashes with) your gown photographs best.
- Necklines: a modest, higher neckline sits better under a gown and honor cords or stoles than a deep V.
- Avoid anything that peeks out awkwardly below the gown hem โ keep skirts and dresses shorter than the gown or choose pants.
For men
- A collared shirt (with or without a tie) and dress pants is the standard; a light shirt keeps you cooler than a full suit jacket under the gown.
- Skip the jacket in most cases โ a gown over a blazer is hot and adds bulk.
- Dark, breathable trousers photograph cleanly below the gown hem.
Shoes matter more than you think
You'll stand, line up, walk across a stage, and often cross grass or gravel. Choose shoes you can walk and stand in for hours. For anyone in heels, a lower block heel is far safer than a stiletto on a stage or lawn โ and wedges handle grass better than thin heels. Break new shoes in beforehand; graduation day is the wrong time for blisters.
Don't forget the regalia layer
Your gown isn't the last layer โ honor cords, a stole, or a medal go on top, and they read in every photo. Plan your outfit and your regalia together so the colors coordinate. If you've earned honors, wear them proudly; they're the clearest signal of your achievement on stage.
Graduation Stole
$29.99A satin stole layers over the gown to mark honors or affiliation โ coordinate its color with your outfit and cap.
Graduation Medal
$16.99A medal on a school-color ribbon sits front-and-center over the gown in every photo.
Small comforts that save the day
- Bobby pins or clips to keep your cap secure (and a mirror to set it at the right angle).
- A safety pin or two in case a gown snap or zipper gives out.
- Water and, for outdoor ceremonies, sunscreen and a hand fan.